The Language of Gifts: What It Really Means to Give and Receive Love

We all express love in different ways, from words of affirmation to acts of service to quality time. But when it comes to the "love language" of receiving (and giving) gifts, we often misunderstand the intent. Dr. Gary Chapman, The author of "The 5 Love Languages," writes:

"Don't mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous…so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to you of someone else's love and affection for you."

So how do we know what's the best gift to give our partner or loved one? We spoke with Dr. Chapman for some holiday gift-giving advice.