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My Sunday "To Be" List

My Sunday "To Be" List

By Stacey Lindsay
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I want 'to be” a part of the solution, not part of the problem. I want 'to be” a member of an equitable society. I want 'to be” Hamlet again so I can say 'to be or not to be” again. I want 'to be” chock full of antibodies. I want 'to be” able to play the piano. I want 'to be” a good parent to my son and daughter, Dawson the cat and Kinley the dog. I want 'to be” in more movies/tv/theater that spread queer joy.

Stacey Lindsay

Stacey Lindsay is a Seattle-based journalist and senior editor of The Sunday Paper. Her forthcoming book, BEING 40: The Decade of Letting Go—and Embracing Who We Are comes out May 5th from The Open Field and is available for pre-order.

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